The hairy tales we tell ourselves

“One thing about Black girl hair that I don’t think we always appreciate is that it’s strong; it’s strong! I used to think coarse hair was a negative thing… but no, I’ve grown to really love my hair and the strength within what I used to think was nappy hair when really it’s just strong hair that can endure anything.”

“What am I going to do with my hair? It was like a constant thing.” (Tasha Smith)

And let me tell you, in my case, it is still a constant thing… The relationship I have with my hair is definitely one of my longest and also unfortunately, one of my most tumultuous one: it’s filled with love, hate and sometimes even disdain. That’s why Micheala Angela Davis’ new web series The Hair Tales resonates so much with me – a bit like Good Hair did a couple years ago…

With this web series and with the help of some actresses like Kim Coles, Tasha Smith and Regina King, Davis adresses Black women’s love-hate relationship with their hair.

You can catch The Hair Tales throughout the month of March in honor of Women’s History Month, which – coincidentally – is right after Black History Month…

 

Post-breakup outfits

Rest assured: I’m not on the market for such an outfit. It all has to do with Fashion Police, Giuliana Rancic, Givenchy and Selena Gomez….

Yesterday, I was watching Fashion Police – one of my many guilty pleasures, along with Judge Judy and The People’s Court.  Near the end of the show, the panel started discussing the Givenchy dress that Selena Gomez wore to this past Sunday’s American Music Awards. Not a personal favorite of mine, but I have admit that she did look flawless in it.

Photo by Jason Merritt

Photo by Jason Merritt

Giuliana Rancic, who loved the dress, made the argument that that dress is the one that you wear when you “want to make your ex regret everything about his life. (…) To regret everything. To be like ‘why did I do that? What did I do wrong?‘ “. Giuliana went on to saying that the back of her dress was so nice that Selena should have walked into the AMAs backwards.

Photo by Kevin Mazur

Photo by Kevin Mazur

Photo by Jeff Kravitz

Photo by Jeff Kravitz

Photo by Jon Kopaloff

Photo by Jon Kopaloff

You have a valid point Giuliana, but only if you’re talking about Hollywood girls and the rest of their kind: singers, models, socialites. Us commoners don’t get to parade around in Givenchy when we wish to make our ex regret everything. Plus I have a feeling that if Habibi and I ever parted ways and he then saw me in a backless anything, with my back fat and muffin top exposed, he would most likely turn to his friends and say “See, that’s why I left her. The girl’s crazy.”

That’s why I leave the post-breakup backless dresses to Selena Gomez.

Marissa Webb and Banana Republic are parting ways

It looks like the Banana Republic’s Spring 2016 Ready-to-Wear collection was Marissa Webb’s swan song, as it was announced today that she will no longer be their creative director. It’s quite a sad new because she had managed to push Banana Republic – a store that was synonymous with entry-level suits – in a fresher, more contemporary direction, all the while retaining its understated, clean look.

Rumors has it that Gap Inc has chosen to replace Webb, not by a single person but rather by design team – just as they did Gap. My only hope is that going that route will have better consequences on the esthetics of Banana Republic’s future collections than it has had on Gap’s latest collections…

Regardless, at least I have these pieces to look forward to:

Photo: Alex Antitch / Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Alex Antitch / Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Alex Antitch / Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo:  Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Alex Antitch / Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Alex Antitch / Courtesy of Banana Republic

Photo: Courtesy of Banana Republic

Le syndrome de la page blanche

Le syndrome de la page blanche.

In French, that’s what we call the inability to produce new work. Yep, I have writer’s block. After starting this blog 6 months ago, I feel like I have nothing more to say. Can you picture it? A teacher who feels like she has nothing more to say. At the very beginning of the school year. How ironic. Maybe it’s the fact that I’ve been off work for so long or the fact that I spent the summer wearing every color there is except for black… I don’t have a clear reason, but what I do know for sure is that I’m going through a bit of slump. I thought that writing a blog would be easy: I mean how difficult can talking about my love of the color black, my obsession with shoes and my taste for champagne really be? And all that in a language that’s not mine? Really, how difficult can it be?

Very, that’s how difficult it is. Sometimes inspiration doesn’t come. Sometimes it does, but in so few words that they are not worth holding on to… Sometimes a picture suffice so why bother trying to explain anything… I found myself writing less and less. A post every 2 weeks. Then every 3 weeks. At that point,  I started to panic: surely I couldn’t have said all I had to say on the matter. 40 posts? That’s it? That’s all I have to contribute to the blogosphere?

Maybe. Or maybe it’s just had nothing to say for the past couple weeks.

Anyhow, going through this slump, along with seeing pictures of the different Spring/Summer 2016 collections, made me think of the real creative minds of the world, the ones whose livelihood actually depends on whether or not they are able to transform their artistry into something tangible and it made me all the more in awe of their capacity to constantly reinvent themselves and ultimately, the world.

On the bright side, I’ve started to wear black again.

Jacket – Zara
Sweater – Club Monaco
Pants – Banana Republic
Espadrilles – Stuart Weitzman

Headband - American Apparel Coat - Zara Sweater - Banana Republic Jeans - J.Crew Sandals - Birkenstock

Headband – American Apparel
Coat – Zara
Sweater – Club Monaco
Jeans – J.Crew
Sandals – Birkenstock

 

And COS will shortly open its Montreal location. So inspiration, here I come.

Boucle et Papier, a new favorite…

Ask anyone who knows me well and they’ll tell you that I’m constantly going over past decisions: why did I get the Speedy 30 instead of the Speedy 35 ? The latter being so much more practical for an everyday use. And 2 years ago when I was on a quest to find the perfect shoes for my wedding, maybe I should have gone with Manolo’s Hangisi pumps instead of settling for his Chaos sandals – as cliché as it sounds, they would have made for the perfect something blue… I’m always second-guessing my choices and while that might be aggravating for Habibi and my go-to shopping partner Fabiola, in my eyes it’s part of the shopping experience: choices have to be made and then I’m left mourning for the items I had to leave behind.

But sometimes I mourn for things that were never actually within my grasp, for things I wasn’t even on the market for… like a stationery store.

So here’s something else you need to know about me: I looooove stationery. It took me longer to choose my wedding invitations than it did to choose my wedding dress. I’m as excited to buy a new diary as I am to buy a new black crewneck sweater. And although my handwriting is terrible, I make it a point to handwrite my thank-you notes. If I had to open my own store one day, it’d be a stationery store; that’s why my heart sank when I read the article a friend of mine sent me about one that has recently opened in Montreal called Boucle & Papier. Clairefontaine, Garance DoréMoleskine, Rhodia, Rifle Paper Co.. Perfection. It’s my store. Except that it’s not. All I can do is go there to stock up on miscellaneous stationery items, pens and pencils, quirky notebooks and… a new diary.

Boucle & Papier

Boucle & Papier – 5183, boul. Saint-Laurent, Montréal